Paige Stevensen is a Master Intuitive who helps people reconnect with their joy and embrace their ability to heal past trauma with support from the divine realm. As an Angel Communicator and Healer, she facilitates the clarity and connection hat are available to anyone who seeks it.
In the midst of a corporate career that should have brought her happiness along with success, Paige Stevensen found herself deeply dissatisfied. When the possibility to start fresh appeared, at first she resented the change. 10 years later, Paige now supports people who may be resisting change but recognize that happiness is worth the risk. She embraces her role as cheerleader for people seeking a more enriching, joyful life.
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I'm so glad you are here with me this week to listen in on my conversation with Paige Stevenson. She joined me in the earlier days of the podcast and we talked about her work, supporting people who have family members struggling with depression. And about her own experience with that. This time, we are changing the focus now and focusing more on people who are stuck in overwhelm, struggling with issues beyond their control, some of them arising from this year that we've spent in the pandemic, and how she helps people make a shift or simply allow for healing to happen. Paige and her team of advisors are joining us this week, I know you're going to enjoy this conversation, especially if you are drawn to the work with the divine realm. Enjoy.
Living in a stressful world doesn't mean you have to give up on happiness. Instead, you can shift your perspective of stress and discover how to live your life in flow. Welcome to happified life. I'm your host, Susi Vine. Join me for inspiration and interviews with folks who are shining their light in the world in the areas of positive mindset, health and wellness.
I'm so happy to have you here. Well, welcome back. I am so excited to have you with me this week. As I am joined by my dear friend Paige, who has been with me on a previous episode, I was just telling her She's my first returning guest and I'm so glad that she is the one who is starting me off on this trend as I'm coming up on one year of happifide coming up in a couple of months. So celebrations will be forthcoming and details will be revealed. But today we're going to have a terrific and inspired conversation with Paige Stevenson. She works with people who are ready to move permanently, not just for a fleeting moment to great joy and happiness. Even if they're currently sitting overwhelmed and stressed out and wondering, how do I shuffle through this big life event when I didn't choose this page helps them by working with angelic energy as a master intuitive page sees what most don't see. And here's what most don't hear. By working with Paige, she taps into those mystical pieces that may be questioning to bring in more clarity. So I look forward to the clarity we get in this conversation. And we're so happy to share this with you, Paige, thank you for joining me.
Thank you, Susie. I'm so excited to be here. Oh my gosh. It's like a reunion. I can just, I'm just like, Oh, I'm like, I'm like bubbling.
You get into high energy ladies together. We're like bouncing and are
so excited. And thank you so much for inviting me back. I love your energy. And that's an understatement. I just love your energy. So I am in such glory being here. So thank you. Thank you, thank you. It's very, very exciting for me. Like Yes.
You're gonna get me off a clip. Do we have any? Thank you, I love being with you. And I love the way that you know, just great ideas come out and insights and things just click into place, you know, when you when you open up and you allow inspiration and guidance to lead you to where you're supposed to be. Right? Yes, come Yes, to be shared. And that's that's what I'm excited to have in this conversation. And as I'm introducing you what lands with me is for people who are ready. So can you start us out by explaining what does that mean who are or why is it important for people who are ready to move towards joy and happiness. Okay,
so this is really a key point because sometimes I get people coming to me and say, you know, I really like my brother, sister, mother, father, like somebody they know. Come and see you. And I always ask them well Do you know if they're ready for it? And because that person came to me, and they were ready, they were saying, I want to change. And now they're saying, Oh, this person needs to change the person, your vessel, I call the body, our vessel, your vessel knows what it wants, your mind says, I'm ready for this. Or like, it's like, when you're a skater, or a swimmer, you know, if you can get out on the ice and do it, you know, if you can get in the pool, and, you know, you know, if you're ready, but if you're not ready to get in and have this change happen, you're going to sit there, you're not going to be engaged, it's going to be a total waste of your time. So this is a really key point, and I'm not talking about just working with me, I'm talking about working with anybody. You have to be ready to accept the change. Do you know how many people are coaches? And one of the first things that they get in touch with? Are you ready for change? Because working with the coach, you're going to be changed, like, both you and I are coaches Susie, and in in the non traditional, more spiritual, and you've got to be ready to make the changes. Or if you're going up to that person and saying, like, anybody that comes to you or to me and saying, okay, okay, I want I want what you're offering. Are you ready? Have you got your head around? That? After working with me for three days, like in my three day workshop, I'll say, you come in this way. And you leave this way. Which is different than this. And it's not that one is bad, and one is good. It's one is serving and not serving, like Which one do you want the not serving, or the serving. And think of that, because that's it this is energy. And think of the energy that is waiting to circulate through your physical think about when you started walking superfast one day, like if you were to go for a walk, and your normal striders tuned in and didn't and then then you decide to do I'm going to call it a power walk. And you're like, what happened to your, your physical, your vessel? Oh, you got a little heated? Oh, it's, you're sweating a little bit, you're all you did was shift the energy, and you've got a different effect. So when you come with either yourself or my program, you are going to shift the energy. And so are you ready? And I've had some people go, I never thought of it. Because I can I can talk to you till the cows come home. But if you're sitting there going, No, no, no, that's no, I don't know, I don't see how that could work for me. Then I'm not for you. You've got to be ready. And if you're ready, who watch out cuz shoot, we're gonna go here. And that's the fun part. That's the part that people literally walk out after three days, well, not like close their screen is more what they do. But like, at the end of the three days there, we're doing our little circle of soul. What do you say now type thing? And they're like, there's been so many changes. Ah, yes, that is what we want. We don't want you to be normal. We want you to be super fabulous, like you're meant to be.
And after this last year of 2020, I don't even have to tell you, we all know the story. There are a lot of people that went through a lot of isolation, and readjusting. And some of those people did not adjust well. And that's when people like you and I come in and go over here, over here. Come on, we can help. And this is part of our souls purpose. And you you know, Susie, how it feels when we've just finished with the class and it's just like, ah, I am so much in gratitude for the souls that showed up that I could assist them because that's what I'm here for. That's like a brownie leader. When all the little brownies get get their badge. It's like oh, or a scout leader. You know, whichever. I don't know if they have brownies.
Absolutely, we do. I was like, Oh, that's a Canadian and a US thing.
The the, you know, when they get a badge, the leaders feel proud that they're little people got their badge, they kiss. And it's like when they come into the class and leave, and they are like, I got something, it's like, yes, it's, it's rewarding for my soul, when people have enriched their lives in a beautiful way. And that's what I get joy out of. So, absolutely, the, the happiness spectrum needs to start going up. Because we've got a lot of grumpy pants. And, you know, now things are starting to get a bit more relaxed, and we're having to move back into feeling comfortable. You know, I actually went for dinner the other night, and I got to sit in the restaurant as like, What? Really? Yes, because most of them were takeout only. And I was like, wow, you know, and they've got the plastic between, but still, we got to sit in a restaurant. And it was, oh, I have to move back into that space and go, Okay, this is what it feels like, Yeah, I remember this sitting in a restaurant. I love sitting in restaurants. It makes me feel fancy. And, you know, I'm being waited on, say, thank you. I love it. So I like to bring joy into things that I do and not take anything for granted. Because so many people are like, I just want to go back to a restaurant, I want to be able to go sit in it and like, but get your head around. Why? What did it bring to you? What was the energy behind it? Because everything is energy? Yeah, I'm sorry, I've kind of gone off on a tangent.
That's okay. Well, I mean, that's why that's why you lead with it, right? Because it's that important, and everything is energy. And people are funny about change. Oh, I'm not afraid of change. I've moved around a lot. I've lived in a lot of different places. You know, I embrace that. A lot of people will do anything to avoid it. And that's what I really heard a lot over this last year is when do we get to go back to normal, I just want things to be normal again. But normal wasn't serving us, we already had so many things that were demanding our attention. Now we've had the spotlight shone on all of them, you know, this feeling of isolation, the numbers of depression and anxiety, were all really climbing before 2020. And then it ignited really, I mean, those really just, you know, hit a whole new exponential level of growth. Yes. And I believe that it's because it was past time for us to reckon with the breadth of the problem. And we have to be the ones to instigate change. It starts right here in this chair, where we're sitting, if we're not willing to look at things a different way, or bring in a new fresh perspective, we're just going to keep on getting what we've been getting.
Yeah. That's so key. You know, it's such a profound statement, when you see if you don't change, you're going to get the same thing you've been getting. And the first step is acknowledging, what do you want to change? And if you can't say, Well, I guess I shouldn't. I don't know be a part of this group, or read this book or listen to this TV show. Like people are addicted to their devices, and they're gone. Oh, why does my body hurt? How come I can't get up and going do things? Did you try turning things off and just making a change? Like everybody wants to point out here and say it's, it's because of you that this is happening? You're making me do this I feel bad because of you. Whoa. Nobody can make you feel any way you make you feel the way you are. So this is why I have the program I do called journey to happy is to get people to understand happy starts here. You can't make me happy Susie. I mean you do but because you're so clever. But I decide if I'm going to be happy or not. That's a choice. And this is not this is not how I was brought up, I was brought up in a very harsh environment, where I was told who I could talk to, how I could talk to them, how long I could talk to them, what they what I wore when I was talking to them. And all of those pieces, I was brought up in a cult. And so I didn't have a choice. But when I decided to make change for myself, that was monumental for me, I decided I was stepping out of that pilot paradigm, and moving into this paradigm, because that one was, because everything for me is cause and effect. I either cause my life, or I live in the effects of my life. I live in cars. That's the only way for me. Because most people that are victualling complaining, whoops, was I allowed to say, Nope, absolutely. If I'm complaining, I'm in effects. And that's not serving, if I'm in Cause if I'm not having a good time, who might tubulin who's to blame? Who am I blaming myself? It's not because of you or that person or that person? It's because of my decisions. Am I having a good time? No, well, let's have a good time then. Like, it's I take full responsibility. So many people do not, they'll go, Well, you know, my husband is so my wife that or my kids this or the the government that or the politicians or the library department or you know, like, they'll come up with this, like, what? I was like, That's bizarre. And no, I dictate to myself, what makes me happy. If I want to stand in the middle of my living room and dance for a few minutes, because I hear a great song. Boom, I saw and I'm happy boop, boop, boop. I don't care what people think. This is my joy. This is my happiness. And so many people are, you know, always, you know, well, what do people think? And, you know, what are they gonna say, and who cares? What do you think? And so people need to stand up and take ownership for themselves, and start making good decisions for themselves so that they're this vessel is not riddled with all your sob stories, all your mucky, mucky stuff that you keep hanging on, you know, back in the day, oh, my God, if you only knew I had to walk both ways, and minus 40, with no boots on, you know, like, it really sad, sad stories. And it's like,
so what? What about tab a? What's happening in today? So so many people live away in their heads? When it's right now they need to be focusing on? What is it right now? I can't change what happened earlier today. Or yesterday, or the week before or the month before or a year ago? I can't change that. Can I change that over a year ago? I was so I am not going online. I am not going on? While it's no more than a year ago. I was so like, no, this, this COVID thing is going to be over soon. I'll be back in the in the rooms doing workshops. And Paige? I was like, Oh, I gotta change what change? Oh, there's that word again. I was like, Okay, I've got to change. Alright, so I had to change and adapt to doing things online. And you know what? It works beautifully. I was like, Who knew that this was actually going to work? Huh? What a beautiful change that was. So now I'm back in my happy again, like, Yay.
Right? And if you hadn't been open to it, you never would have known what was possible, right? I think that you and I, because we did at the same time suddenly say, Oh, I guess business happens online. Now. That's not how I was working either. But there are opportunities that have come about because we were willing to step into this change. I know I could not have imagined right so I'm I'm so grateful. And I wanted to and what you're talking about makes me think too, because a big part of what drives me and what I want to land with people is the awareness that that we have power that we have been giving away and through my conversation with stress and reclaiming our health. With little bitty shifts in the habits, it's recognizing that we have the power to control our health. And so what I'm hear you saying is, we have the power to control our happiness. And a lot of times people who are really unhappy are the same ones who have given that away, and are letting the spouse or the kids or the boss or the dentist or the mailman, or whoever be the reason they can't be happy. And, and it makes me think to have, you know, the concept we can let our past define us, or we can let our past inspire us. There's just a perspective, we have to bring to this choice. And it's a choice, it's Yes, a choice to make change.
And most of the time, people who have control issues have problem with change. So there will be people in your audience that will be listening, and they'll go, Oh, you know, this guy, he is such a control freak. That's the same person that can't handle change, well, they weren't seeing things the way they were the same old, same old doing this, doing that going through the routine. And as soon as the routines off second, they almost instantly will crash, energetic energetically, they will spiral down. And they will go, I don't know what's going on. And then and those will be the first to have it happen to them. And they will either bounce back up and go, Okay, I guess I need to change, which is a small percentage. Most of them will go, Oh, it's because of that, that I crashed. Oh, okay. Well, I'm back now. And they don't see that there was an option there that there was a different choice. And so that's a very valid point, Susie is that choice point. That's a choice. And you can look at some people and just go, oh my gosh, they're always so joyful, and so happy. And, and, you know, what are they doing? I want the lemonade. They're drinking. And it's a choice. I've got problems like anybody else. But that's not what I where I placed my focus. My focus is on, I'm enjoy for what I have. I've made the choice to live where I live with the people that I live around. And if I don't like it, who's responsible for that? Me. So then I will just have to change where I live if I don't like it. But people think, well, it's because of the economy, that I can't do it. It's because of our government programs that I can't do it. It's because of my neighbor's house isn't selling so mine won't sell, or whatever, we start telling ourselves up in our heads. It's like, Yeah, no, I'll just stay in what's the undercurrent? No change. But we reasoned it out. And we come up with theories. And, you know, well, no, that's not a good time to move. Because, you know, there's a lot of, you know, people uncertain of what they're doing, then you don't know how the economy is going to happen, how help and all this uncertain, it's like, what if you got a move, you got to move? You know, if your house burned down, you'd have to move, you know, but they don't think of it that way. They come up with all these other things. And it just gets, yeah, just silliness.
A lot of effort can go into that, and just staying stuck. Yes. So I'm curious if you have any insights, I mean, we've already talked about it, right? People have to be ready to shift to make a change. But if you can see, there's just a little bit of resistance. There's just a little bit of this. Maybe they grew up with that model of it's someone else's fault, right? Or, you know, it really does feel like the deck is stacked against them. Are there some ways or some shifts that you have shared with people that have started to kind of shed the light on it and help them recognize there's a different perspective from the one they've been letting themselves?
So one of the most common things that I have to tell people first of all, is that it's not your fault. And that change is possible.
Those are powerful things to lead with because I think A lot of people when when they hear, well, it's within your power to change, then they say, Oh, well, so it's my fault that I'm stuck here. And then they try to tune back out. Yeah. So that is really powerful. Yeah.
And seriously, I want people to understand this. If you've come into this world, and you've been leaving your life, and you're just following what you heard, and the influences you had around like I did, I, you know, I was told to get married, have the picket fence with the station wagon, and the dog and two and a half kids. And that was the model and, and the job had to have a good pension plan. Yeah. So that, that, okay, so that is what I got. That's what I did. I got married, had two children, got the good job with the good pension. And now I'm sitting in an oil and gas company, on the 24th floor with the view of the mountains, and I'm sitting there gone one day,
this isn't what I want. And I thought this was what I want it. And I don't want it anymore. As I I've got what I thought was right. Because of what I had been told, and I've, I'm sitting in the evidence of, this is what they wanted for me.
The familial people who I love and adore. But it wasn't for me. And so I said to the universe, and be careful what you say to the universe. Because I said, Hmm, I don't want to be here. Less than a month later, I got the golden handshake. But by five of us got marched out that day. And, and when that came, now, time had passed. And I was like, Oh, right. Don't they know, I've been here for a long time. And I've got many hears in here. And in the meantime, I'm going, Oh, mg. I've got this thing at my house called a mortgage. Huh. I go into fear. I went into fear so poorly after they sent me home in a taxi with, you know, a golden handshake. And really personal, you know, not really will send your stuff in a box by courier. Okay, thanks. And Google Home and you're sitting there, it's like they come in, in the morning, you're you've just got there and they're coming in saying you're going up. And so you're sitting there going, huh? And talk about fear coming over? Because now, that's a big change. Big, big, big. Gone is the J. ob. And so what do I say? Oh, no worries. I've already started a healing business. I'll just continue with that. And that was 20 years ago. No, 10 years ago. Sorry, full time. Yeah, I've been doing this 1020 years. But 10 years ago was when I got the handshake. And it's like, Huh, so I know what changes like, I know when the fear steps in that you can hardly move your legs, you're in so much fear. You can hardly walk. I know what it feels like. I've been down that road. So I get it when people are riddled with fear. What I love about my journey is that I now have the tools to heal that person to take that away and release it offer them just like I did it for myself. The tools that I learned and it's like healed. Well, that sounds kind of like a magic wand. But pretty much because I work with the end with the angels. They do the work. You just have to say in front of me Okay, Paige, I know that I just went through this fear I lost my job and there's this big blob sitting on me. The angels will assist, and they do the work. You don't have to regurgitate it, you don't have to go through it. You don't have to relive it nothing. They just come in and go. And it's gone. And this Well, I'm oversimplifying at this particular moment, but pretty much what the right steps. It's gone. And the biggest thing is people start looking gone. Okay. We're good to go. Like, so this is, this is my team.
I love that portrait behind you. Oh, my God.
Gabrielle raffia, mother, Mary, and Jesus. And this little one. That's me. That's my team. So when I work with somebody, that's the team that I get that the title of is it the Divine Love, or the love that divine that guides me. Beautiful love that divine the guides me.
And I think that I think what's so powerful about what you're describing in the experience that is possible is that it's not, it's not a matter of, Okay, so we've identified it. And here's the work that you have to do to clear this, or here's, you know, what you have to give up to let it go beyond not carrying it with you anymore. And trusting that healing is possible. Because sometimes we have to kind of carry that badge of honor around and be like, I survived all of this. And this is how hard My life was, and like, we have to carry it with us, we get a grip on it. And back to your point of being ready to shift ready to change, we have to let go of that release that story. Yes. And make room for another story to lead us forward.
This is what I love about working with the angels is they do the work. Like I have to be willing to release something. But then they do the work. They come in and do the roto rooter job. And I just have to allow and boom cha say thank you. Thank you. And, you know, I love it. Because I know there's some programs out there and I'm not Pooh poohing them. But for me, I don't like to journal. I'm I yes, I can write I you know, I send out my material. I wrote things. But to sit in journal about my experience and this the stuff that I went through and reliving it and the feelings and the Whoa, and the me and the Oh, no. It's not for me. So this is why this type of healing with the angelic realm is such a match for me. Because I just say I'm experiencing this team can can we take that away? And sure, it's gone. And I don't have to question is, Oh, is it really gone? I just know, going forward. Oh, I'm not having that experience anymore. And so it's a beautiful feeling when I can just ask and receive, like Abraham Hicks says, she asked when it shall be given. That's how simple it is. It's Oh, but what do most people do? Can I really ask for that? Can I Really? Yeah, yeah. Let's start. Here's a way to start. Next time you go to the store, ask for the parking angels to get you a good parking spot that's so classic. And just sit where do you like to normally park on that side of that side? or here or there? Wherever you like to normally Park say, Can you get me a spot on the far west side or the east side? You know, where do you like to park and then go to the store and see if the perfect spot is waiting for you? And if it is, then you know they're working? And if it isn't, you didn't believe it? Because it's always a parking spot for me. Because I believe. So this is another piece to the change is possible. But you got to believe it.
Absolutely. And I think that comes back to maybe a question of you know, some of us have this work ethic, right? The same kind of perception goes along with stress. I have to be pushing myself so hard to reach my goals. In order for them to be worthwhile. I have to earn it with my blood, sweat and tears with the hard way is the right way. You know, a lot of us were raised that way. And I think there's a lot of generational healing and clearing that is happening right now. So totally, we can open up to a different way of doing Yes.
And, you know, for myself, I'm I'm full time entrepreneur, like yourself, and I am told by my guides, like right now, yes, I'm a little more dedicated to my business, because I've got things launching, and getting letters out and all of those kinds of pieces. So it's a busy time for me. But it's for right now. So I don't complain. I have awareness. Oh, it's a little busy right now, after the pushes off, and now the course is done. It's like, Oh, okay. Now I can relax a bit. But I understand that I have to be a little more dedicated to get the results that I want. And this is why I love working with the angelic Chrome, because and here's the thing, people doesn't have to be angels. No, it doesn't have to be angels. I like angels. But if you have a divine energy that works with you, then use that there is nothing wrong with tapping into divine source energy. Just call it in, they want to assist, they want you to press that start button and go start. That was easy. Oh, that felt good. Yes. That it's not meant to be all convoluted and hardened struggle and no, cancel clear, delete that this is with ease and grace and flow. It sounds all you know, oh, she's smoking weed or so I tell you, that's the space I'm in. And I don't do that stuff. Because my that's what my life is like. And that's how I orchestrated. That's my life by choice. And that's a big thing. You got to choose to change to have the happiness. And are you ready.
And another thing too, because I don't want to negate situations that people may be working from. And you and I previously, our conversation was really focused on people dealing with depression, either in themselves or in their family. So there are situations in which there's other support, right, that is needed, perhaps like there's the hereditary, you know, proclivity, or there's neurotransmitters, there's other assistance and support that needs to come into the equation. And we can keep looking for the solutions. We can get connected, we can look for what resonates and leads us in the right direction. Right, maybe coming back to what I was saying earlier about where we put our power, when we give it away. And when we bring it back.
Yeah, well and also, okay, so the audience's knows a little bit more about me. There was a time, Susie when I was bedridden with depression. So I know what depression is about. And it's with my tools that I teach that I removed myself from that scenario. And, of course, worked with my doctor, I was on medication I I'm not anti doctor, I was on antidepressants, and I was like getting myself better. And he's like, we should start weaning you off. I was like, Yes, thank you. Yay. And so we have a plan and we follow through and you know, the rest is history. So I know what it's like when you're depressed. I know I know that frickin cycle you get in you're, you're depressed because you're unhappy and you're unhappy because you're depressed and you're depressed because you're unhappy, and you're happy, unhappy, because you just go didn't and, and, and then and then it's like, stop, stop the cycle of madness. And make a change right now. And that's where a lot of people wait too long. They think something else is going to make them happy. They think that Oh, the kids just behaved or if the wife was better or the husband was better or you know, treated me more Kinder or our if my taxes weren't so high or you know, whatever story they're telling them. It's very common when you're depressed to be pointing out and go on. It's you guys. You're making me sick and in fact, it's all here. I get it, I know what it's like. And, you know, I'm, I'm not making things trivial, like there there are my ex husband is still depressed. After 30 years, he will never be off his meds. He can't, you know, it's it's serious with him. But he was he did not want my help. That is part of why we divorced. Well, there's other pieces, but, you know, like, it's you've got to want to change or it's not going to work. And and I'm not going to tap touch on anybody's toes that if you're needing medical, medical assistance, and I'm not saying that, yes, I can work miracles. And yes, miracles can happen if you want them to, but most people want the evidence. How did that work? Doesn't matter. It worked. And it's like, how did you get happy? My thoughts? My ways, my tools, you know,
made the choice. But it's so simplistic.
It's so simplistic.
Can't be that easy. Yeah, we have to do is choose. And I think that people tend to think to like, Okay, I'm going to make the choice. And I'll believe it if it's a radical transformation, right, which it can be, if you're open to it, if you don't analyze and pick it all apart. And sometimes, it happens with smaller things being revealed, right? Because if it was a radical change, would we trust it? Would we step into that with full faith, maybe we need things to unfold more slowly, so that we can grow into this new space. So trust the process, you know, and have curiosity and understand, sometimes big shifts happen. And sometimes, you have to kind of look backwards to see how far you've come because it's hard to recognize along the way, right? But keep coming back to it and keep making however small that choice might be or as big as you're able to make those choices and trust that they add up and lead you to where you can be.
Yes. You know, a lot of times, like I said, when there's when change can happen. When we want the evidence, some people have an expectation of what it should look like. So I want to caution people, that when you have an expectation, like people come to me, and they have an expectation that they're just going to go from this to that like, overnight, and it doesn't happen. They had an expectation. And now, my saying is, when you have an expectation, you're creating a limitation for yourself. So when I send out my letters to people, hey, come to me, you're coming to my three day, perfect, have no expectations, leave your expectations at the door. Just receive what you receive. And the gift unfold over the three days. Because if you come and you're saying, this is going to happen, this is going to happen. And this is going to happen when I'm at pages workshop. And it doesn't, who gets fingers pointed? You know, so have it. This is for anything, not just for my program for anything. Like when you buy a car, you're buying a car and saying, great. This car is going to serve me well. I'm going to be able to travel so many great places. And it's never going to break down and it's going to be perfect. And no not get flat tires. And you're you're building and building your expectation of the car. People. It's a car. It'll have his its wear and tear. It's a car. Hello, you know. So as soon as you create an expectation, you create a limitation. you're setting yourself up for failure. So stop it. Stop it.
Stop it. Tough Love from page. Yeah, I think that's worth remembering. If you have an expectation you're setting yourself up for limitation, because we think we know the ending that we want to write. But if we cast a vision and move ourselves towards it, we have to remain open because the blessings and the miracles that come up along the way to guide us to where we are meant to be Could be beyond our wildest imagination. Right? So why shut that opportunity out?
Well, here's the thing, like I know people are going to be saying in their head. Well, Paige, you know, if I'm going to a party, and I want to have a good time, I'm expecting to have a good time because I'm like, if you're gonna invite me to your house, Susie, and you're saying, Paige, we're having a party come at seven o'clock on Friday night, okay? And so I go to your house and I'm, before I get there, I'm like, I'm gonna have so much fun because I know it's just a blast at that house. And, you know, if they've got the pool open in during surfline, and blah, blah, and I get, I get this conjured up idea in my head. I'm going to get there and you're like, Oh, I can't believe nobody else came. And I got to the grocery store, and they were out of juice and the liquor cabinets empty, and we couldn't get the pool fixed. And I'm like, Huh, what happened? Is because I had an expectation, and I created a limitation. So what I do instead, is I say, cool. I've been invited to Susie's house on Friday at seven. Thank you. And I leave it at that. My team. Just like you have a team, also, your divine source energy that you tap into. Whoever that is, knows what you like. If it's for my highest good, well, first of all, I would have checked in to see if it's for my highest good that I go to Susie's on Friday at seven o'clock. Oh says yes, yes, go. Okay, so away I go, I get to Susie's. And I have the best time. Because I trusted. I didn't set an expectation. I trusted that I'm being divinely LED. Because I always check in is it for my highest good to go to Susie's party. And maybe that day, it might not be not anything against you, Susie. But it could be that there could be a crash on the freeway, and I can't get to you. And I'll be sitting in my vehicle all night, waiting to get through, you know, like, something like that. That's why I always check in and make Should I go here, okay, should I do this program? Should I attend this person's piece? Should I go meet this person for coffee? I always check in with source energy. So that I don't have to have any expectations as going to be good or not. If my team says, yep, go ahead. Then I'm like, Yay. And I get there. And it's a blast. And I love it. Because I also make my own fun. I'm a happy person. And I don't question if I'm gonna have a good time. I don't get there and go. Yeah, Susie? Yeah.
Who else is gonna come and entertain me and make it fun?
Right? Right. There it is. I'm like, Oh my god, I get to show up and be at your house. Are you kidding me? Yes, thank you. I'm in so much joy. Like, well, I mean, especially after this last year. But you know what I'm saying like, people don't realize they take some things for granted. Like, be enjoy. Just be enjoy that happy. There's enough grumpy out there.
Love this like, huh? Yeah, true that.
You wait a second. Okay. Where's the happy? Hmm. And you know, I? Seriously, I'm not on any drugs. Maybe I should be. And I don't drink alcohol. Well, that's not true. It depends. If James comes to town and buys me a Cosmo.
Right when you're out with friends, you know, sometimes
sometimes Yeah, I really can't handle alcohol anymore. Like, it really gets me loopy after like one drink. And I'm like,
when you're already connected to joy, you don't need something to help you loosen up, right?
It just makes me giggly or giggle You're such a word. Yeah, voted
for when events come back down to San Diego. No. But what I think the secret to that is if if people aren't picking up on it is You said you check in you check out with your guides, or you check in with your inner self, your higher self, your compass, whatever it is, whatever that that place is you make space to tune in and say does this feel right for me? Does this serve me instead of Looking out to say who else is going to be there? Oh, you go into Okay, well, then I'll go and then just as you say, then those expectations start to be created, right? Because you're looking out there for that validation. And assurance. Yeah, we need to build this, this ability to get quiet to look inward to look upward to ask well,
and unless so many times, when I was going to events, family would call and go, who else is going to be at the party? And I'd say to them, you know what? I'm not the hostess. I don't know. But I'm going, and that's all that matters. And I'm going to have fun. Oh, well, dear, you know, oh, I wasn't implying I said, No, it's okay. I'm, it's not my event. I doesn't matter who's going to be there. I'm there. And I'm having fun. And that's all that matters. And it really does shock people. But that that internal compass that you have, you know, my company is that intuitive advisor, that intuition. 20 years ago, was not as sharp as it is today. That's a developed skill. But you know, for yourself, like anybody listening, you know, your body talks to you somehow, you get the A lot of people say, well, it's a gut feeling, or I get chills up my back, or somehow it is speaking, this vessel is speaking to you. trust it. It is a truth serum that you've got going there. just listened to it. Do we have to listen to it all the time? No, we can do whatever we want. We've got this thing called free will. I can get an ugly feeling around. Ooh, that event is I'll go I'm going anyways. And I get there. And it's like, oh, they lost power. The ice all melted. It was terrible. I couldn't have a cold drink. And it was like, ah, I should listen to myself. You know, but you think it's gonna be fun anyways, but team was, you know, divine energy new. As I own. I should have listened via Note to self. Pay attention to the intuition.
Maybe next time, I'll remember. Yeah, yeah, I think that's really important to recognize it's it is a skill to be developed, it gets easier to tune into faster and yeah, yeah. Once we get quiet and learn how to listen. So Paige, I tell folks, how if they want to learn more about how you work, or what you have available, you have a little gift people can pick up if they are drawn to it. Yes.
And if I apologize for not remembering the title, it's how to start your day.
The right way to start your day with magical high energy.
Yes.
It's a bit of a mouthful, but it sounds delicious.
It's the right way, like this is how do you start your day, so that you are having a beautiful day? Are you getting up in the morning? And, you know, getting up and going? Yeah. Like, how many people do you know get out of bed like that? Lots.
I used to, I've been there.
Right? I wake up and I go, Oh, I just slept the whole night. I love it. Thank you. I had such a beautiful sleep. Look at the day that I'm going to have. Oh, thank you team, and I'm in gratitude. And then I start saying some beautiful things to myself. And in my document, I've got them listed out what are some of the things you can say. And I know that some of you are like all this sounds to like hokey pokey fruity to the whatever you want to call it. I'm going to challenge you to start saying at least one nice thing to yourself in the morning. If you're getting up and looking at yourself in the mirror and going oh stop. That's yourself. That's that beautiful being and if you're a guy and you're like I'm going to tell you say hello to yourself. Hello beautiful Hello handsome. However you are you know, male, female, whatever you want to say. Say it with meaning. Because nobody else is gonna start coming around and going up beautiful. You have some gorgeous you're this you know, we got to save for ourselves. We've got to start saying I love myself. I love myself. Are you kidding me? I'm starting to let my silver wings show. I love myself. Silver wings, this is going to be so cool because back here, it's not a silver, I'm gonna have this nice band right here as cool. Eventually, it'll all be white, it's gonna take some time. But I'm like, you know what this means? I know my stuff. That's right. And I'm gonna say that with earnestness, you've earned your wings. Well, and not only that I'm so so divinely connected, that it's without a doubt that I know the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. And so I know that sounds a little pompous. But if you're working with me, you got to be ready. And you got to want change. And you got to be able to hear the truth. Because I know, in you, is this beautiful being that it's just chomping on the bit to get out. And you've got to start letting it out. It wants to express itself. It wants to get out. It's like, let me out, let me out. But the monkey mind is like, Oh, be quiet, quiet, quiet. No, no, It's time. It's time to get the changes happening now. And so, go on my website, click the little, I would like this little ebook thing. It's pretty. And then if you're further wanting to connect with me, there's a box so you can connect with me. Please, I'd love to hear from you. and answer any questions you have. And see if we're a fit. Because I'm not for everybody. I get it. But I'm not sure for a lot of people. I love what I do, because it's serving my soul. And that's what brings me great joy. Just like for you, Susie, the spider. Your thing is sharing your wisdom with people too. And it's, you know, we know how we feel we get all like, I'm so happy. Yeah. Yeah, I'm gonna have to go for another walk.
You've got plenty of daylight left there in Vancouver so you could definitely get another walk in. We're getting up to the height of summer. Yeah, so we'll have the link for pages website in the show notes. If you're just listening you can head back to the intuitive the intuitive advisor.com and find her ebook there her resource at least pick up one lovely thing to say to yourself one loving, lovely thing and start seeing how the energy shifts when you shower yourself with a little extra love and stop waiting for the world to prove itself to you.
Oh, right. Exactly. Susie, like that's the greatest gift you can give yourself is just to be kind to yourself. And you know, hello, handsome. Hello, beautiful. Whatever you want to say. Look at and look in the mirror and say it with genuineness? Not how handsome beautiful No. Would you look at your buddy and say I don't know if you're handsome. You're handsome. Or your girlfriend? Hey, beautiful. Why can't you talk to yourself that way? Easy peasy, lemon squeezy. Try it I think you really will be surprised at what you learn about yourself when you start treating yourself. Kinder.
Yep, there's a change worth making.
Yes, bright.
Paige, thank you so so much for joining me and for this conversation. I know where we were going to go with it. But I knew it was going to take us all the right places. And I think we covered some important stuff. I'm so thankful for you and your time and your presence. Thank you, team for joining us today.
Well, Susie, I want to thank you for having this platform available and for inviting me again. And I'm so blessed to have you in my space in my world. And I love what you do to and your soul worth knowing. And so thank you. Thank you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I appreciate You so
thank you. I appreciate you too. I'm so glad you're doing what you're doing in the world shining your light.
Thank you. Thank you.
You take good care. I can't wait to talk to you again soon.
Thank you.
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